My First Unofficial TMI Tuesday (Late).
How’s it going–you know, your relationship?
Get real. Spill. It’s TMI Tuesday!
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How did you realize an important relationship (romantic, friendship, business) was over? What was the pivotal moment or statement?
After being involved for 2+ years, he asked if I wanted to live with him. When I said no, he asked if I knew we could get married by Notary Public, like he meant to hide it.
Relationship strategy–do you have one? Share.
I have several:
Love completely, not blindly. Don’t question your instincts. Don’t let anyone else make you doubt yourself. You know what you know. Communicate. There must be love and trust enough to put fears to rest in order for love to grow instead of stagnate. Be that invested. If he gets angry instead of communicating about anything run, do not walk, to the nearest exit. Most women believe half of what their S.O. says. My strategy is to know which half.
Name two things you appreciate about your current relationship. Why are these things significant? (If not currently in a relationship, feel free to refer to your best relationship)
He had basic insight about how to satisfy a woman… Make that women.
He knew that selfish sex would not garner the result he wanted in return.
In your relationship, do you compromise?
a little never – I usually get my way
too much, it helps keep the peace (Now, I have a rule of thumb: Be empathetic, work for it, but not to the point of being a doormat.)
If you went to couple’s therapy, which of these are you most likely to have a need to discuss:
My significant other feels more like a roommate Sex is uncomfortable My partner doesn’t know what I like in bed “Forget sex! We barely touch.”
We were compatible in all those ways but it’s not a relationship if you’re in it alone.
Bonus: Below is a list of extreme sports. You must pick one sport to try. Why would you do that sport?
volcano diving (Possibly, if another relationship ends badly and there is the possibility of death. Perhaps this would snap me into a new perspective. Rebirth from hell’s mouth?)
zip-lining through a jungle bungee jumping
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Happy TMI Tuesday!